HoneyDew Podcast #338 | Shapel Lacey's Survival Guide to Grandma Guilt
My HoneyDew this week is comedian Shapel Lacey! Check out Shapel’s latest special, Three Dads, Two Moms, now on his YouTube. Shapel joins me to Highlight the Lowlights of grief, guilt, and the complicated nature of family after losing a loved one. Opening up about his grandma’s recent passing, Shapel and I dive into what it’s like to navigate emotions that don’t always make sense. We also get into the importance of breaking generational cycles, and the role empathy and education play in making that possible.
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01:24 Shapel Lacey promotes his comedy special "Three Dads, Two Moms," highlighting the influence of Richard Pryor on his work.
07:42 Shapel shares insights on personal growth, inspired by Richard Pryor's vulnerability, and reflects on family relationships and grief after his grandmother's death.
18:29 Shapel discusses emotional struggles with family relationships, expressing complex feelings towards his stepdad and familial guilt.
32:52 Shapel explores racial identity and personal growth, discussing challenges as opportunities for development rather than setbacks.
37:34 Breaking generational cycles is crucial; it involves understanding past behaviors and choosing to improve one's life using education and empathy.
42:55 Shapel acknowledges past anger as a driver of success, yet emphasizes the importance of managing it for healthier relationships.
44:51 Considering parenthood triggers fears of repeating family patterns; Shapel feels uncertain but is open to being a good parent.
52:11 Mentoring and sharing knowledge help pass on valuable life lessons learned from personal struggles.
55:53 A humorous story about an accidental family reunion highlights differences in family events.
58:20 Shapel Lacey shares his tour dates and promotes his special on YouTube, inviting audiences to follow for updates.